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On the three hour drive home, Husband and I–seriously concerned by our daughter’s inability to enjoy the moment–made a point to talk about all the neat stuff we had seen, what our favorite reptiles were, and how funny Trouble had been holding the snake. In the weeks that followed, Chuck and I talked a lot about how we were going to handle this lack of contentment we were noticing.By the time we made it home the Build-a-Dino had been forgotten. Then one morning near the end of July, after telling my kids to clean their room for the umpteenth time, I made the somewhat impulsive–albeit pre-warned–decision to take away ALL their stuff.As some of you already know, I’ve been on a mission this year to simplify my family’s life and rid ourselves of excess.
The truth is that when I took all their stuff away, I was terrified at what would happen.
Stuff isn’t evil in and of itself, but in a world where we are constantly told that what we have isn’t quite good enough, the love of things can so very easily consume us.
It is the pursuit of it all–more toys, cuter clothes, a prettier house, a nicer car, a bigger computer, a fancier phone–that makes us forget all the things that actually matter.
It wasn’t until after observing first hand the real and immediate changes in my children after taking their toys away that I truly began to understand.
And now instead of me teaching them, they have taught me the lesson I wish I would’ve have learned a long time ago. UPDATE 4/2/13: It has been over six months since I originally published this post and judging by the comments that continue to come in, this topic has struck a nerve with many of you.